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Mark and Kathy Psutka posted a condolence
Monday, January 30, 2012
Some 15 years ago I visited my friend Rossco at lake in northern Ontario.
What I learn about the lake was that it is about 7 miles long and maybe 2.5 miles wide with many inlets and bays to explore.
Situated almost in the centre of the lake is an island that rises 38 feet above the water and as legend has it contains an abundance of fish life around it, with pickerel and bass reported to be this big…….
No matter where you go on the lake you can't help but pass by this place we call High Rock.
It didn't take long before we were invited to the rock to meet the folks that lived there.
When you first set foot on the island you realize that this is a special place filled with great joy and honest friendship. From the Flowers on the dock to the multicolored muskoka chairs to the quacking duck for a phone you knew someone had left her mark on this little bit of heaven.
With her welcoming smile and unmistakable laugh we soon realized why this place was as special as it was.
Vera had a way to make you feel like you were part of family with her warm hospitality and delicious cooking. Dropping in unannounced was allowed and encouraged and often led to cocktails on the deck followed by dinner and much laughter into the nite.
That special bond between Vera and Fred over their 47 years of marriage became clear when you participated in some of the Projects Fred dreamed up.
One project involved the installation of the new septic tank. Imagine waking up on a sunny Saturday morning and seeing a 1000 gallon plastic septic tank being towed down the lake to the island. Once out to the island, the tank had to be hoisted to the top of the rock, up that38 feet. With Vera in the boat and the rest of us at the top, the hoisting seemed to be working well until about 5 feet from the top when you guessed it the rope snapped.
The tank tumbled to the lake below and the wind began to push it to the neighboring island.
After some laughing we ran to the dock only to find the boat drifting out in the same wind. The famous Cathers Knot did not hold. After more laughing and a short swim all was recovered. We still don't know who tied that knot. Vera and Fred never sorted that one out.
The Cathers Knot has been used many times on docks, inflatable floating slides and rafts and evens logs. All have slipped their bonds but most have made it safely back to the rock. I figure this is how Fred and Vera became friends with most of the people on the lake.
Putting up with Fred and his projects was one thing, the kids, another.
Who can forget The Wedding? Details of this event are legendary and will live on in stories for years. Vera's support and encouragement made this weekend memorable.
In recent times, one thing became paramount in Vera's world. She was fiercely proud of her Grandchildren and continually talked with us about them. The island, at times resembled a daycare. A Bunkie was added and a beach installed. Families grew and many memories were made. I know she loved this.
I'm honored to be here today to share my stories with you. We all have memories we will cherish about this special lady. I know I will smile when I pass by High Rock on my quest for that elusive Pickerel. She will be missed but never forgotten.
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Andre Van Overloop posted a condolence
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Dear Fred, Carrie, Chris and family. My sincerest sympathy to you at this time of deep sorrow. I remember Vera with her jubilant smile and laugh when we were neighbours. "All things beautiful last forever, kept within sweet memory". May your happy memories help to ease your sorrow today and always. Sincerely, Andre.
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Jim and Lorraine (and Girls) posted a condolence
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Mr. Cathers, Chris, Kim and Family Our sincerest sympathies and heartfelt condolences on the recent and sudden passing of your wife, mother and grandmother. I know she will be missed by her family who obviously loved her deeply. Our prayers are with you all in this time of loss. Jim & Lorraine Stewart and Family
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Doug & Auralee Major posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Dear Carrie & Family, We love you and send our deepest sympathies to you during this time. Your mom had the best smile, which you inherited...cherish the wonderful memories you made with your mom. Love, Dougie and La
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Les and Dianne Nemeth posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Our condolences to you Fred,Carrie and Chris. May your memories help you and your families through this difficult time. Les, Dianne, Leslie and Tracy
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Brian Lorch posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Fred,Larry & Marilyn...thinking of you at this very sad time.Our memories are forever.Take care Brian
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Theresa and Paul White posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Dear Carrie and family, Please accept our heartfelt sympathies with the loss of your mom. Although unable to be there to support you on Saturday, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Theresa and Paul White
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Don Beleutz posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Fred, You have our deepest sympathy in this time of grievance. Maxine and I are thinking about you and the family. Don Beleutz
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Jeaunitta Lockey and family posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Carrie and Family Please accept our heartfelt sympathies with the passing of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families.
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George and Carole Catherwood posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
We send our deepest sympathy to Fred and family. She was such a active gal hard to believe she is gone. Love to you all George and Carole Catherwood
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John and Pam Leermakers posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Carrie and family: We were shocked to hear of your mom's passing. She was such a vibrant women and such an icon in the Aylmer community. John and I want to send our love during this time of grief. She will be missed by many!!!
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Jay Whitcroft posted a condolence
Monday, January 23, 2012
Mr. Van Acker, Fred, Carrie, Chris and families. My heart goes out to you at this terribly difficult time. Shocked to hear this news I know what grief you suffer. Be blessed by your cherished time with your daughter, wife and mother and know that she is at peace. My thoughts are with you. With love, Jay.
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Shari Lilley posted a condolence
Monday, January 23, 2012
Fred and family, I am so sorry to hear the news of Vera's passing. I am at a loss for words and in shock; enjoy all your memories. I know from the several years of doing Vera's hair that she always had lots of fun times with family and friends. She spoke with love about all of you.
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Wayne & Linda Lewis posted a condolence
Monday, January 23, 2012
Cathers Family: So sorry to hear of the passing of Vera. She was always so pleasant and fun to be with. Vera will be missed. Cherish your memories, and she will always be with you..... Wayne & Linda
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Weber posted a condolence
Monday, January 23, 2012
Carrie & Family, Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss as our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Val(Voros), Steve & Brennen Weber
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Bruce & Judy Hartley posted a condolence
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Bruce & Judy Hartley made a donation to
During this difficult time we would like to extend our most heartfelt sympathies.
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Bruce & Judy Hartley posted a condolence
Saturday, January 21, 2012
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Jim and Lorraine Stewart and your friends at Ferris Medical posted a condolence
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Jim and Lorraine Stewart and your friends at Ferris Medical made a donation to
During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies. From our family to yours, our deepest condolensces.
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CHRIS & CHRISTINE BROOKS posted a condolence
Saturday, January 21, 2012
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During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies. If you need a friend to help you through this, you know who to call. So very sorry to hear of your loss.
